One of my middle school friends really liked a boy when we all were in middle school. My friend always told me that he was handsome, cute, lovely and so on, but I couldn't understand. When I saw him, he was just an usual boy who was pretty short and had dark skin like a black bean. My friend was dedicated to him; giving a birthday present, chocolates on valentine's day and letters from her heart. However, everytime he was given, he felt uncomfortable and not so happy. This reason also made me feel unfair. I always thought, how was he handsome? why was he popular?, so I pushed my friend to forget the boy and I told her he was a bit cocky.
Few years later, I was finishing high school, some of my high school friends and I had a meeting with guys. we gathered and waited for a while. One of my friend shaked a group of guys. I saw them, but I never met them before. We found a place to talk and sit. At first, everyone told their name. There was a handsome guy, so I concentrated on his talk. Just that moment, I couldn't believe my ears. He was the boy who my friend liked. Moreover, he became really handsome and tall. His appearance even made my heart flutter. I was truely surprised and shocked. I thought he knew my friend name, so I asked, but he didn't remember the name well.
In this case, I realised two things; One thing is people's appearance can be totally different especially when they are young, so don't judge when young. The other thing is the person who you like or love dosen't remember your name unless love takes work on the part of both sides.
you know, between youth, there's a sentence about the situation you have mentioned.
답글삭제"Be kind to the ugly and fat boys next to you. None knows that how he will be changed."
interaction is very important. I agree about that.
답글삭제People's appearance can be changed, but heart is difficult to change.
답글삭제Sometimes there are men who tatally change their outlook, face, skin color and height from they are juvenile. How surprise!
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